EROS is a solution if you are AL1

Eros comes to people suddenly in certain stages of their lives, even to those who are afraid of the apparent risk of adventuring away from separateness. People who are afraid of their emotions and afraid of life as such will often do anything in their power to avoid -- subconsciously and ignorantly -- the great experience of unity. Although this fear exists in many human beings, there are few indeed who have not experienced some opening in the soul where eros could touch them.

The RO of Eros, 200x200 cm
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Eros in a highway, 200x200cm
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Love is a permanent state in the soul. Love can only exist if the foundation for it is prepared through development and purification. Love does not come and go at random; eros does. Eros hits with sudden force, often taking a person unaware and even unwilling to go through the experience. Eros is moving fast like a car in a high way up or down and is possible to hit you. Eros comes to people suddenly in certain stages of their lives, even to those who are afraid of the apparent risk of adventuring away from separateness. People that are afraid to switch on the light to see the truth. People who are afraid of their emotions and afraid of life as such will often do anything in their power to avoid the great experience of unity. Although this fear exists in many human beings, there are few indeed who have not experienced some opening in the soul where eros could touch them.

For the fear-ridden soul that resists the experience, this is good medicine regardless of the fact that sorrow and loss may follow due to other psychological factors. In rare cases, eros alone, without sex and love, exists for a limited time. This is usually referred to as platonic love. But sooner or later with the somewhat healthy person, eros and sex will mingle. The sex force, instead of being suppressed, is taken up by the erotic force and both flow in one current. The more the three forces remain separate, the unhealthier the personality is.

Without Eros, there is no passion. There is no “melding” of people and the communal sharing of one’s essence.

Without passion, “life is not worth living”. Whenever Eros is in a group, deep bonding can occur. This can bring feelings of immense satisfaction and inner well-being. While this feeling can certainly occur through the discovery of our own passions in life (ie work, hobbies, etc), it is only with the connection of others that Eros makes his presence known. For example, I can derive immense satisfaction through painting. But it is only when I share my work with others that real
connections are made. It is only then, that the work is finished; when I let the work go and have it become part of a community. In art therapy, the results are immediate; it goes from creation to sharing and discussing of the meaning of it..

If you don’t want to be alone just leave eros enter in your life!!!